how do u forget you're best friends death?

I moved this because, well, it wasn't really relevant where you originally posted it.

So go on. Did your best friend die or something?

bt thinkin bout their life and rememberin good stuff

yea my best friend died he was beaten to death

Jesus...that's brutal. Was it recently, or in the past?

I've never had something like that happen. I've been lucky. No one close to me has died aside from my hamster last year. :/

it was a few years back

if it wasn'nt for him i properly would'nt be here

I've had two close friends die in my life time.
After a while, you just learn to adapt to the loss of someone, no matter how unexpected.

The only time I ever cried after someone died was my little sister. She was cute at the biggenes and halved a pare. Oh well though, plus : that was a while ago.

But what is really hard to forget is having someone die that no matter what you CAN'T learn to live without. Hasn't happened to me, but my friend's parents both died when he was a kid and he's still dead inside from it.

My best friend's mom died when we were eight. Brain cancer. I practically lived at their house, both before and after that. We were young enough that, thinking back on it, it doesn't hurt as much as it should, but we were old enough and mature enough that we knew what was going on. Of course it affected my friend more than it did me, but we were like sisters.

The last thing I remember her mom saying to me was, "When I get better you can braid my hair just like yours." Classic, huh?

The funny part is that I missed the funeral 'cause I got the invitation on the day of the funeral. Other funny part: her guinea pig later got brain cancer but survived. Around two years later it starved to death 'cause their grandma forgot to feed it while they were on vacation.

Okay, not that funny.

But that's the closest I can relate.

My advice for getting over a death like that would be to just keep trudgin' on. Of course you're going to feel like shit, and of course it's going to hurt, and of course you won't get over it--but what else are you gonna do?

adapting is the resolence of human nature.

I had a couple of my good friends die. They were killed, and I honestly can't forget about those days. But if you think about the good times you had with them, I guess it kind of helps.