Want me to help explaiin the ending to you so you understand it more?
(by explain, I mean converse.)

Sure, whats the deal with Rei going into Lilith (spelling?) and turning into what seemed to be like God being able to mass murder the world.

Seems like this was ignored. . .

1. No one died, they turned to LCL. Big difference.
2. Rei WAS lilith already. That was just Lilith genes mixed with adam, who was located in Gendo's hand.
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